To loose, the one you love is something difficult to deal with, much more if you lost two important persons in your life in just a month?!
One of the hardest thing to happen in one’s life is to forever not see the one you love the most. Well, this is reality and I assume that we all get through with it, although not just that early for some. Dealing with pain and loss is totally difficult to handle. It’s a process to deal with. Just like letting go of a toxic relationship, there’s a process that we go through in order to finally accept everything.
The process, as they say, comes with a cycle. And most probably, I am at the stage of in pain still but slowly accepting. How I manage to not get devastated by what had happened may not suit to those who are going the same thing too but I hope that at least, it can somehow help you in any way. So here are the things I find helpful in dealing with losing an important person in our lives.
Think of those who are still there physically and that you need to move forward
- Hearing of the bad news, all you want to do is to cry it out and wish that it wasn’t for real. But in reality is this and that the least we can do is to accept things as how they happened. However, it isn’t that fast to accept such thing. So to slowly cope up with it is to think of those who are left and still need you. It may be a little difficult to handle but that’s what can help you.
Make yourself busy
- Getting busy is part of our daily routine but whenever we are going through a pain, we set it aside. In times like this, I find my schedule helpful in dealing the losses I have had. It somehow let me forget that they are gone forever.
- Above all, prayer is the best solution to such cases. No matter how tough life is, prayer is the best move to ease all the pain. God hears what your heart screams. If you can’t find the right people to talk to, you can always count on God.
Life is full of surprises, good and bad, and so much more. What should we think of is that if the loss is for the good of the ones we love, let it be. Besides, everything has its purpose as to why it happened in the first place. So just strengthen your faith and believe that everything has its own reason.